Wednesday, 11 March 2009

The woman in your life...Thought Provoking!!


T
he woman in your life...very well expressed....

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,

but
you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One who has never entered the kitchen in her life
just like you or your sister haven't,
as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls
for their culinary achievements

One who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters,

almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that

-her home and people who love her- to adopt your home,
your family, your ways and even your family name

One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef
from day 1 while you sleep oblivious to her predicament
in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One who is expected to make tea first thing in the morning
and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired
as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to
complain;

to be a
homemaker, a cook, a mother, a wife;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want
from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times
like you
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding,
or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace,
those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing

to put all that on the back-burner to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition
and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,
but won't, simply  because you won't like it,
even though you say otherwise

One who can be late from work once in a while

when
deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One who is doing her level best and wants to make
this most important relationship in her entire life
a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One who just wants one thing from you,
as you are the only one she knows in your entire house
- your unstinted support, your sensitivities
and most importantly - your understanding,
or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this.......


Please appreciate "HER"


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